How to Get a Girl to Open Up to You
Discover a proven way to get a woman to open up to you very easily without prying or being pushy.
Communication is one of the most important skills to have when it comes to meeting women, and so I’m going to teach you a nice little skill that you can use immediately.
Unfortunately, most guys have no idea how to talk with their lady, and they end up being single over and over again. Here’s something important to remember about talking with girls that you’re interested in.
If you find yourself not sure what to talk about with a girl, you can do what’s called”listening for topics”. It’s really easy to do this, once you know how.
If you’re on a date with a girl, and you are bored of talking about the latest movies, what kind of music she likes, etc… what do you do next? What do you talk about?
Well, that’s what I’m here to teach you. Listening for topics is a powerful solution to this problem, and it’s so easy to do.
Let’s say, for example, she’s telling you about her day, and she mentions that she bought flower bulbs for her garden. Well, normally you might just nod your head and say “uh huh, yep”… but no no no… you can use that to move into a fun conversation.
Plus, she’ll feel really good about talking to you in the future.
Let me explain. To you, her garden might not mean anything, but if she mentioned it in conversation, it’s obviously important to her. So you could say, “Oh, you have a garden? Could you tell me about it?” Well, don’t you think she’s going to jump at the chance?
She’ll actually think you’re more interesting, because you were interested in HER garden. Remember that people who are the most interesting, are usually the ones who are most interested (in the other person).
Try it out the next time you’re talking to someone. While they are talking to you, actively listen for them to mention something out of the ordinary about themselves, or about how their day went.
Then, go ahead and ask them about it. This will open them up, and make them want to talk to you more. And it will also make them appreciate you so much more, because you were actually listening to what they had to say (so much so that you asked them for more information).